Mort Fertel Review: Refocusing On Each Other

This program redirected my focus to the important things in life

Hello Mort,

Sorry for the late reply due to the holiday. I want to wish you a 2013 full of good things for your family and yourself. I believe the Marriage Fitness course has been extremely helpful for me and for my wife as well. Speaking for myself, I can tell you that I am spending more time with her since listening in on your calls. I have a better sense of what is really important for me and how appreciating her is part of that reality. I have become more patient and now I dedicate most of my free time to her and my son. Before I had been too distracted with social media, tv, music, etc. as a supposed outlet from everyday pressures. Now those things have become secondary and spending time with her is primary and especially quality time. I will continue to review your lessons as you always go to the point and have a vast understanding of possible issues and solutions. I wanted to be brief for now. However, I want to say that I greatly appreciate the knowledge that you have passed on to us for a happy relationship.

Best Regards,

RR

Mort Fertel’s Program has rewarded me in all of my relationships

. . . It has been a lot of work, but very rewarding. Even my son has noticed changes in me, but I’m still working on my fixing and focusing on my wife’s needs… our relationship has improved because of changes in me over the past 2 months. These changes are entirely due to the Marriage Fitness course. Thanks for your continued help.

Anonymous

Finding Mort’s Program was the best decision we ever made

Dear Mort,

I want to thank you so much for the Marriage Fitness program.  About a year ago, my wife asked me to move out.  We saw a few therapists but were not impressed and our situation did not improve.  I found your website through Google searching.  I was skeptical at first but kept returning to the website over the course of several weeks.  Finally, I discussed Marriage Fitness with my wife, and we decided to try it.  This was the best decision we could have made for our marriage.  We have consistently implemented the principles and practices that you recommended and now, a year later, we are happy and looking forward to the rest of our lives together again.  When we encounter problems now, we know that the solution is not to run from each other but to run to each other – for it was through connecting and rebuilding our love in an active way that we solved our marital problems (and all of our other problems as well).  I am eternally grateful to you.

Sincerely,

B

Having said that, we are now ready to let go of the Plugged-In program (at least for now).  So we would like to ask you to cancel our monthly Plugged-In order referenced below.  Again, thank you.

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Mort Fertel Reviews on Saved Marriages

Fighting to keep the family together

Read this amazing review on  how Mort Fertel saved this woman’s marriage. The words in this review are this woman’s own personal experience that was cut and pasted directly on to the page.

I am not sure where to begin. On March 10th my husband of 14 years (18 with dating) told me that he wanted a divorce, I was devastated.  I wanted to crumble.  I begged and begged but all it did was cause more fighting.  I asked him to consider for the children and he just wanted out. We kept fighting for the next couple of days which tore me apart especially when it happened in front of our children, which hurt even more.

Discovering Mort’s emails, not only led me on to a path to fix my marriage, but also one of self discovery

I somehow found you and your email address. This truly was the day that changed my life and my marriage.  I read each word and took each of them to heart.  I started to implement them one by one. I could not believe how they worked. While I know that the trouble in our relationship is not one sided. I made the decision to change my habits, not so much for him but for me and it has been such a gratifying experience. I truly love myself now more than I ever have.

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Our marriage has made a complete 180 degree circle with Mort’s ” words of wisdom”

Every little step in the last six weeks has been so worth it.  I could start to see him change a little and come back around to our relationship.  Thanks to all of the words of wisdom that you provided. My husband has told me that he loved me for the first time in 9 months. I am truly blessed to have come in contact with you. I don’t know if I would still have a marriage if it was not for you and my friends at work that held me together.  The relationship that I have with my husband now is the best that we’ve had in the last 4 years and I can’t thank you enough.

With the utmost gratitude,

Shelly Arledge

Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness created another happy ending

I cannot tell you how you inspired me. My husband and I are back together and we know we are going to make it. We have been married for 35 years this year and another four. We are in love and have realized how to communicate again and loving to listen to each other. Thank you.

Leona

Mort Fertel Reviews: How to Overcome Infidelity

This program lifted me up when I was down

I started the program in November or December 2011, after I found out about my husband’s infidelity (which had been going on since 2009, first with different women, and since 2010 with a “steady” mistress, who divorced her own husband to be with mine). I’ve worked on saving my marriage all this time using the Marriage Fitness program…I appreciate the program because it empowered me when I was weak, and it encouraged me when I was down. The insights I’ve gained from the program have helped me get through the pain.

Thank you.

Victoria

Sharon soon learned about trust again

I listened to the audio file for Q&A Seminar 2 and would like to thank Mr Fertel for picking my Question in my email to him to be discussed. I listened through the audio file twice to make sure I didn’t miss anything. The discussion on ‘Trust’ (Question raised by John) was excellent too. I have been on your Marriage Fitness Program since Early December 2012. I have learnt so much about my marriage and also about myself for the past one month. I was lost for about 8 months since I found out about my husbands’ affair but Mr Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Program has given me a Step by Step path of guidance and the confidence which I needed so much, to know that I am doing the right thing to improve my marriage and hopefully to end the affair. Please convey my thanks to Mr Fertel.

Regards,

Sharon

Husband learns to treat wife with respect after wake up call

I decided on the program when my wife confessed to me that she had a few affairs over the last few years, and that she DIDN’T WANT TO BE MARRIED anymore.  The news hit me like a ton of bricks because I still love her, and realized I did not want to lose her. This was a wake-up call for me, as I realized that I had been neglecting her for years and I had made up my mind to do anything possible to win her love back. I started on marriage fitness about 7 weeks ago, and committed myself to become the best possible husband. I am beginning to make some progress on reconnecting with my spouse, and restoring our marriage, and I am feeling confident that we will again feel profound love that has been missing for several years. I still have a long ways to go, and I know that I must be persistent in applying all of the principals I have learned in Marriage Fitness. In the end it will be very much worth my time and effort.  JPS.

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Mort Fertel’s Impact on our Marriage

There is no excuse not to try this program

These Mort Fertel reviews are so inspiring. These are some real stories that were submitted to us. These emails were literally cut and pasted onto our blog. You are welcome to submit your own review as well!

Words can’t begin to describe my appreciation and the positive impact you’ve had on my marriage.  My wife and I have reconnected in ways that we haven’t in years.  Not only did we find your advice insightful and honest, we also found your self-paced Marriage Fitness Program easy to follow yet profoundly effective.  And you offer so many marriage counseling options and various price ranges that you’ve effectively eliminated any excuse not to get started.

Mort truly cares about helping couples with their marriages and happiness

What I like most about your program, Mort, is YOU. After reading your book, listening to countless CD’s while driving to and from work, and dialing into your teleconferences over the past seven weeks it’s more than evident that you truly and sincerely care about people, their marriages, and their happiness. There’s a reason your successful – – you honestly want to help.

We truly appreciate what you do and are so thankful

My wife and I would love to meet you and thank you in person some day (we live only an hour away).  However until that happens, please know how much we truly appreciate what you do and are thankful  for the marriage program you established.

My best to you and your family.

Sincerely,

Bill

My marriage was failing, but with continued guidance and support, it was saved

I would like to thank you for the generous support and encouragement. The first day I requested  your help I was very delighted and overwhelmed with the positive response I received from you. I must say again thank you for helping me save my perishing marriage.  Each day brings joy into my life again like the old times. You helped me realize that to be in the best and healthy marriage I need to go through rough times and feel the pain in the process.

Couples considering divorce should think again

Thank you a million times, may you live for many years to help all those who think about divorcing their wives/husbands. This program helps them realize that they are missing out on a truly incredible thing.

Regards,

Maria

Mort Fertel Review: My Marriage Was Soured Early On

My Marriage Was Soured From The Begining. Mort Fertel’s Program Sweetened It

I would recommend this program.  I would even recommend this program to my worst enemy.

You often said that a relationship does not find itself in a mess overnight but is the takes several years.  I believe that my relationship was somewhat soured very early on.  However, we both saw the potential in each other and our relationship and fought to hang on.  Rarely did a week go by without there being  at least two to three fights.  Our relationships was full of anxiety, hurt, frustration, and misery.  I believe we had love for each other we just didn’t know how to show it.   Finally, after seven years, my wife had had enough and moved out.  We both had made threats about doing so but she actually followed through.   Obviously this was very upsetting and I told her that we should not throw our relationship away just yet and that we should at least try some counseling.  She told me she would but that It was going to take an amazing counselor to keep us together.   So I searched for several weeks for this amazing counselor I really didn’t think existed or would not be amazing enough to help us save our marriage.

I Found An Amazing Counselor: Mort Fertel

Finally I came across marriagemax.com and signed up for the free newsletter.  I was very impressed with the first newsletter.  So impressed I signed my wife up for it also.  She quickly pointed out to me that Mort said not to that.   To find out more about the Marriage Fitness Program I ordered the Audio Learning Program which is a less expensive alternative.  I listened to all the CDs and came to the realization that I had found the “Amazing” counselor I was looking for.  I told my wife about Mort and asked her if she would do the Tele Boot Camp with me.  She agreed!  I knew when she agreed that I had her back!  I should warn you that it has not always been easy following the program – it takes a lot of work and as Mort would say discipline.  I have found the hardest part of the program for me is not being selfish and not focusing on myself.  The program is teaching me how to do that.

 

“Mort Has Taken The Fight Out Of Us”

Our results have been incredible and it has only been 10 weeks. I know it may sound like no big deal but my wife and I have not had a fight in over three weeks.   As I like to say now “Mort has taken the fight out of us.” We spend more quality time together, we talk more, we’re inseparable.  It’s like we are newlyweds.   A Big bonus, which I wasn’t able to see at the time I signed up for the program, was how it would affect so many other parts of my life and interactions with others.   When you learn to be a kinder person to your spouse and not be selfish you are also learner to be kinder and less selfish person with everyone in your life.  It just your spouse trumps all.   I have said to my wife many times that I believe Mort is the smartest person I have ever come across.

Bests,

Kerry M.

Mort Fertel Review: I Left My Marriage

I Left My Marriage Of 15 Years, Mort Fertel Brought Us Back Together

Hi, My name is Heather, below is my story of how I saved my disintegrating marriage using The Marriage Fitness Tele-Boot Camp Program with Mort Fertel.

I Was Skeptical About The Marriage Fitness Program

I rarely believe the things I read on the internet, so when I found Mort in a Google search for marriage advice, I was skeptical. Then, I figured… what have I got to lose? So, I signed up…

My Husband Wanted Nothing To Do With Fixing Our Marriage

My husband wanted nothing to do with it, so I took Mort’s advice and just stayed on the path on my own, working on mending what I had all but given up on. I had moved out of the house and was starting to move on with my life, but something kept pulling me back to my ex and our 15 year marriage.

Something Pulled Me Back To My Marriage And Our Marriage Is Stronger Than Ever

We reconciled almost a year ago, after we had both gone outside our marriage and we have never been stronger. Thank you Mort so much for your help. You took things that should have been obvious to us, but had been forgotten along the way and made us refocus on those things that we needed to do. It started with him saying, “No, it is over. There is nothing we can do. I do love you, but I cannot do this anymore”… It was tough because, at first, he didn’t respond. Because you told me to expect that, it was easier to deal with, easier for me to keep going. I don’t know if it would have worked without that guidance you provided. I am certainly glad I gave it a shot and that you gave me the courage to keep working at it and believing I could turn it around. So are our kids that have their family back together. Thanks again and again!

Thanks so much!
Heather

Mort Fertel Review: We Stopped Trying

We Didn’t Grow Apart, We Just Stopped Trying

My Wife And I Had Become Roommates

Mort I would like to thank you for a fantastic program. Having been married one month short of 26 years, I thought I new a lot about relationships. Oh boy was I wrong. Too many times you hear people making comments like, ‘it happens, people grow apart’. Married couples don’t grow apart, they just stop trying.  After going through your program and actually doing the assignments, reading the material, listening in on the tele-conferences I learned that people just don’t have the tools to try and make their marriage work. It does take work. I thought I was headed for divorce,but I knew deep inside I needed to continue towards change. My wife and I had become roommates and it didn’t just happen overnight, much of it had to do with me.

I Began The Program And Began To Transform

Within the first week of getting into the material, I was able to apply some of the teachings. It was only the beginning to what has become a transformation of myself that I am well aware of is not anywhere completed! I became more aware of who I had become and it was hard accepting that I could make a difference myself, I always thought it took 2 but using the Lone Ranger track, I became engrossed in learning more.

My Wife And I Have Reestablished Our Marriage

Fast forward,my wife and I are treating each other with kindness. We have become aware of the needs of one another. We are even finishing each others thoughts and sentences which was non-existent just a few short months ago. I used the talk charges, the touch charges, the intimacy interview, all of which I contribute to the change we are both feeling towards one another. I even wrote at the end of one of the chapters how I was recalling the feelings I had towards my wife when we first met and how those feelings were creeping into my daily thoughts, AGAIN!

I recommend this program to all, it makes you go hmm! Its all because of this program my marriage is headed for better places. Oh by the way, my anniversary is Feb 14, Valentines Day and we are planning a great special night.

Truly thankful,

Dean R

Mort Fertel Review: Our Marriage Was Mediocre If Not Poor

Our Marriage Was Never Great, It Was Mediocre At Best.

We Went To Traditional Marriage Counseling for Quite A Few Years

Mort,

Let me tell you our story.

My husband and I had been together for 16 years.  Most of those years were mediocre to poor.  We didn’t really fight, but we also didn’t really love.

We had been going to the same counselor on and off for several years.  We began seeing her again last August when we decided that we would give it one last try before throwing in the towel.  We actually discussed that we should move on while we were both still young enough to have other ‘options’.

I Discovered My Husband’s Emotional Affair

Not much changed over the next few months until one day I got home early and witnessed my husband NOT answer his cell phone when there was an unusual ring tone.  Without too much detail, after asking many times and becoming quite the snoop, I did find out 3 months later that he was having an emotional affair since June with an old girlfriend.

We continued going to counseling, but separately.  Most of the time I actually felt worse after leaving her office.  She encouraged us to separate and he moved out in February.

Our therapist continued to encourage us to have little to no contact, but the longest we could go without any communication was 3 days and it was a very LONG 3 days.

Mort’s Website Was A G-d Send

In early September I came across your website when looking for marriage help online. I began forwarding them to my husband and something clicked for us. It turns out that we had both been copying your emails into one file so that we could read them all together over and over.

We began to spend more time together and implemented some of your exercises. We soon canceled our future appointments with our therapist and decided to try your program.

After Being Away For So Long My Husband Moved Back Home

The result – he moved back home this past weekend after living away from home for 9 1/2 months.  We’re only one week into committing to share our lives together but we can really see a transformation in our relationship. For the first time in a long time we are truly SHARING our lives.

I asked him recently ,”what if things start getting crappy again?” He replied, “That means that we need to try harder.” That was the best thing I’ve heard in a long time.
Mort, my husband and I are now truly CONNECTING our lives. Probably more than ever before. I thank God that I came across your website and you for touching our hearts in a way that made sense to us. I beleive we would not be where we are today if not for you.

I have passed the link to your site onto several people that are having marital problems. They all seem to be inspired by our success and were happy to have some hope for a new approach to their old problems.

Our next steps will be to continue working through the workbook and signing up for the Plugged In program. We know that we still have some work to do, but we’re doing it with open hearts and open minds. It no longer feels like WORK. It feels like LOVE!!

R.I.

Mort Fertel Review: My Husband Had Moved Out

Mort Broke My Wall Down And My Husband Moved Back Home

I Was Searching For Answers

Hi Mort,

I was involved in your Tele-Boot camp a few months ago. I was in the lone ranger track. At the time I joined I thought, “What am I doing. This is crazy! Now I am joining a bunch of strangers on some online thing!” But I was searching for answers. I was in individual therapy, I was buying books, and my husband and I were separated with no communication and lack of any motivation on either side. I was devastated and had no where to turn. I really felt we were on our way to a divorce. My husband moved out, he was having an affair, and our life was spiraling out of control.

Mort Opened Up My Eyes

Anyway, after being in your boot camp for almost 7 weeks, you and I had a 10 minute phone conversation and you said something that really helped me break my wall. You that you had pegged me as someone who was a very capable business person, strong personality, but very hurt and confused. When one has a capable and strong personality they are really thrown for a loop because they are usually in control and now they are so out of control that they can’t understand anything that is going on because it makes no sense to them. You said to me, “Nancy, you’re RIGHT, your husband has done a horrible thing, something he should not have ever done, he is not communicating with you, you don’t know what is going on with him, but are YOU going to be RIGHT and live the rest of your life on your own with your family broken up or are YOU going to do the RIGHT THING and try to save your marriage and your family?”

I think I actually laughed for the first time, believe it or not, but I was so hurt and lonely and confused and you reached through the phone to give me a swift kick in the rear! Here I wanted hugs and sympathy but you knew at that time to shake me up and get to the core of what I needed to do.

I finally realized that I had to find a way to get over the pain and the hurt and the betrayal such an act does to your soul and find someplace to start to heal myself and my family. I was ready at that moment to give it one more try and to really and truly start using some of your methods.

My Husband Moved Back Home

Long story short, after 6 months of separation, little or no communication and being ready to finally file for divorce, my husband and I are back together, he is living at home once again and he seems truly remorseful and is starting to change himself. I see a different look in his eyes that was not there before and a willingness to try on his part. I am now in great hopes that we can save our marriage and our family.

The program helped me to get beyond this mountain of hurt.

Thank you.
Best wishes,
Nancy A.

Mort Fertel Review: We Had Thrown In The Towel

How Mort Fertel Saved Us From Giving Up

Our Marriage Was Over

I’m happy to give you a testimonial because this has been a life-changing experience for me. Before taking your course our marriage was over. I have been married four times and really wanted this to work, but the light at the end of the tunnel had long since gone out. We decided that we were done and divorce was the only answer.

I Was Blown Away By The Program

Then my husband came across your program and signed up without telling me. He then started talking about the program and got one of your CD’s that I listened to half-heartily. When the program began I listened to your first seminar and was so blown away by what I was hearing. I couldn’t believe all the things that I could relate to and how they were being depicted. We had spent thousand of dollars on counseling, working out nothing through each session. Only to leave angrier and angrier. But at the end of your seven weeks, I have never loved my husband more and know that we are going to work through these things and stay on the track that we were always meant to be on. I know that we will continue to work at keeping our relationship fresh because we are worth it.

Mort’s Inspiration Was A G-d Send For Us

Your inspiration with the material provided has been a serious God send to both of us. I thank you profusely for having the desire to help those that can’ t s eem to help themselves and will continue to reference your materials in order to keep our relationship in tune as we grow together. I can’ t say thank you enough!

Jennifer